How can a 23 year old woman achieve her first orgasm? Ladies only?

How can a 23 year old woman achieve her first orgasm? Ladies only?
everyone likes different things....try asking her what she likes what turns her on...
how can a young woman, who has never had an orgasm achieve one? she has tried toys, getting drunk, relaxation techniques, candles and wine........oral. but still nothing. Do any or did any of you ladies have the same problem? THIS IS getting frustrating for her.

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