4/30/12
losing sexual feeling because of vibrator?
losing sexual feeling because of vibrator?
There is no long term side effects. When you get your liences do you forget to walk.
Everybody body changes. you may need to up grade your toy, or try another version of play, (ei water or shower head) or try different postions.
Some times the best thing to do with a lower sex drive is to not have sex or play for a while. Stress does play a large roll in a person sex drive, try some candles, romance yourself. Set the mood for it.
You can always try a lub (warming or tingly) or there is a product called the We-Vibe II. which will give u clit and g-spot vibrations.
I am a bit concerned because before I was able to masturbate by myself and get off but when I started to use my vibrators I was able to get off easier and faster so I kind of stopped doing it myself. I was the kind of person who would get off everyday or so and still have sex with my boyfriend using my vibrator at the same time.
I do not know why but I just don't masturbate anymore ever (like once a month not even) I think because me and my boyfriend had sex so much I no longer enjoy it because it feels like work It takes me so long to get off now and I get so frustrated or distracted then i just want to get it over with.
I have less sexual drive now I never feel (turned on) I can get off if i lay there long enough and i do get off faster by myself. I'm not sure if it's all in my head because there is no romance and relaxation. we just lay in bed and decide to do it it was fun before but now it's harder to make it mean something emotion and we are trying. could it be stress?
I just don't have the sensitivity like it use to be i can not have a vaginal orgasm alone but it the clit is stimulated I can feel it inside me then it feels good. My boyfriend use says it's because i don't enjoy it. but i know its normal and other people are like that to but i want to enjoy just him alone.
when i (play) so to speak. my toy is either not strong enough or it is way to strong then it's to sensitive. it takes me about 30min with we do it maybe more. (sometimes)
I was thinking about just putting away my toys and trying to get use to myself again because hands do not compare to toys and its like a high it takes more and more to make you feel high but in this case pleasure. then if you stopped using the drug for a while it takes less to get you high.
but i don't know if long term use of vibrations on that AREA can cause loss of feeling down there.
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